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7 Simple Techniques How To Meet Women

Learn simple techniques to increase your confidence with women and have lots of fun doing it. How to meet women anywhere by being YOU!

Are you struggling to meet women? If so, you need to keep reading. In this blog, you’ll discover 7 simple techniques that will make it easier for you to meet women… whether you’re at a party, a business meeting, a class or anywhere else.

Okay, here are the 7 techniques on how to meet women:


#1 Pay Attention & Respond


Be The Kind Of Man Who Sees A Need And Responds To It! Listen up!


I bet right now, you have an image of what you think a good man should be like. Someone who is honest and forthright. Who is kind and thoughtful. Someone who has a good sense of humor, cares about other people, who leads by example, who is self-reliant, who is strong, who is successful, who makes lots of money. Is There Anything Missing From This List?


Oh yeah, one very important thing. Someone who is… attractive to women! You know what’s funny? Most men have NO CLUE of what attracts women… and… even most “experts” in the field are totally clueless.


Interestingly enough, it’s  not what you say or do; it’s how you look. Your body language, smile,  aura,  vibe. Your attractiveness is largely an inside out thing. It’s what’s on the inside that counts… and… most men have NO clue about what turns women on.


Let me tell you something: If you want to meet women, you must learn to become more like… a “turn-on” than a “turn-off.”  Trust me, it will serve you well throughout your life.


Here’s a little secret I used to know but forgot until recently: Women respond to three things: Need, Need, and Need! Need is very simple. It’s just a desire or urge that is not being met.


For example, if you are hungry, you have a need for food. That’s it. You don’t necessarily want to eat steak; you just want the food group that steak represents (protein).


Girls are much more complex. They have an endless variety of needs. Some women want a man who is wealthy. Other women want a man with a high I.Q. And some women want a man who is kind, a man who is strong, a man with a good sense of humor, a man who is adventurous. And on and on and on. But no matter what they want, they always want…


A Man Who Is Responsive! Responsive to their needs… and responsive to their feelings. Which brings me to need:


#2 Be socially 


Say you want to meet women, you must learn to recognize and respond to their feelings.


What does that mean? Well, let’s say you are at a party and you see a woman who seems to be lonely. She’s standing by herself, looking around. Maybe she just got here. Maybe she’s just leaving. Who knows? All you know is she looks sad. So you go over and ask her if she wants to dance.


That’s what men do. We are the “sensing” species. We pick up on emotions and feelings instantly.


Women, on the other hand, need to feel a man’s warmth and comfort in order to let their guard down and open up to him.


What would be the first thing you’d want to know about a woman if you were going to ask her to dance? I mean really the very first thing? It’s… her feelings! She’d be telling you all about how she feels. If she’s sad, tell her you’re sorry. Tell her it doesn’t matter. But tell her something. Let her know you care.


#3 Take initiative


Most women love it when a man takes the initiative. In fact, most women will almost do anything a man tells them to do. All they have to do is believe he means it and has good intentions.


Now, the next time you are talking to a woman and you see an opportunity to ask her to dance… don’t look at her like she’s crazy… ask her! Be leading and she would love you for it.


Majority of(or all) Women are attracted to men who take the lead. It is a sign of strength. It shows you have enough self-confidence to be unafraid to approach a woman. If a woman senses a man is playing safe or waiting for her to make the first move, then… that woman will immediately begin to mentally reject him as a potential mate.


Stop being afraid of rejection. Being afraid of it is what makes most people weak. Most people simply don’t have enough courage to approach that unknown factor. Unknown factors are precisely where most of the good stuff in life is found. Don’t be afraid of them; embrace them. And don’t forget…Women LOVE IT WHEN A MAN TAKE THE INITIATIVE!


#4 Playful Interaction


When It Comes To Meeting Women… interesting interactions that are unpredictable is a key to success in meeting women.


What does being unpredictable mean? Simply put… it means you don’t give women any hints about what you are thinking or feeling. You don’t tell them your plan. You don’t reveal too much of your hand so they can read you and know what to expect from you.


Being unpredictable is one of the keys to long-term success with women. And remember… most men are predictable. They usually have a plan… an agenda… for their interactions with women. They have a script for the interaction. And this can work against them when they are trying to meet women.


Women are attracted to men with dynamic personalities… not men with static personalities. Don’t be afraid to be different. Don’t be afraid to be unpredictable. That’s what makes you more attractive to women. It’s what will set you apart from other men. It’s what will make you a winner with women.


#5 Make It Fun


Have A Good Time! This is critically important. If you don’t have fun meeting women… you won’t have a clue how to meet the “one”. Plus, if you don’t have fun meeting women… you probably won’t meet very many women at all!


Fun is an important ingredient in meeting women and in everything else in life as well. So, have some fun! But don’t overdo it. You need to be smart about this. Don’t do things that are stupid. Don’t get so drunk you pass out in a lamppost. Definitely not so high you make fools of yourself.


And remember… It’s Not Just The Fun That Matters… It’s The Connection! The connection is what makes everything work. If you can make a woman feel connected to you… she’ll do anything for you. Including… give you her number (and more)!


Therefore… make sure you’re not just having fun… but… you’re also making a good connection with the women you meet.


#6 Your Friends & Surroundings 


Surround Yourself With People Who Boost Your Energy!


Very important to have people around you who are positive, optimistic, enthusiastic, high-energy… and who believe you can do no wrong. People who make you feel good raise your vibration and put you in a more positive mental state to deal with the world. Always seek out such people, surround yourself with them, and give them a lot of your time and attention.


In fact, I’d go so far as to say… The People Who Live In Your Vibrational Neighborhood Will Come To Represent The Things That Are Important To You! And the important things to you are what makes you happy, healthy, wealthy, and successful! Such people will attract to you those elements of your life which are in harmony.


Opposite-minded people (those who drag you down) will repel from you those elements of your life which are not in harmony.


So choose your friends wisely. Choose friends who are on your wavelength. Choose friends who have the same goals as you. Who believe in you the way you believe in yourself. Who give you the mental and emotional boost you need to go out and get what you want in life.


#7 Recharge


Give Yourself A Time Out Every Once In A While!


It’s important to take care of yourself. To let yourself recharge and re-set every once in a while. Exercise, get plenty of sleep, eat well, take vacations, do things you enjoy, and so on.


This is part of being a well-rounded person. You see, if you don’t give yourself time outs… if you never stop running at full-tilt boogie all the time… you will burn out. When that happens… you won’t be able to keep up the intensity necessary to meet women.


You’ll start slacking off. Losing interest. Giving up. And… that will be the end of your relationship with women! Thus, it’s important to take care of yourself.


In conclusion… These are the seven techniques to attract women and create attraction. My name is Gino Brodovski. I am a dating, relationship and social skills expert. I help single men get the results they want with women. Schedule your free consultation call with me now if you need some help with your confidence and dating goals.

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