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How To Text Women And Get More Dates

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In this blog, I’m going to show you how to text women and get more dates. I’m going to start by showing you the basics of texting women, but then I’m going to give you some tips on how to get more dates. First, let’s start off with the basics. What Is Texting?



Texting is a way to communicate using text messages on your phone. It allows you to send short messages to someone else without having to call them. You can use it for almost any purpose: to tell someone about a great movie you just watched, ask for their opinion on a new song you heard, say “I love you” and SET UP dates.


Why Texting?


Now that you know what texting is, you may be wondering why you would want to use it. Well, I guess that is just the way people communicate these days. If you want to call her, she might think you’re crazy. It also gives her time to think of a fun response or witty comeback. And hey, we’re all busy people here and can’t always talk. Just like email, it gives us time to respond whenever we want, whenever we have the time.



If you’re trying to get more dates in your life, texting women is a great way to build a rapport with them and build trust. Especially in case you haven’t had enough time to connect on the initial meet up. But, I don’t recommend to text too much, like weeks and months. Just a little bit and set up a date.


What & How To Text


What Should You Text Women? When it comes to texting women, it’s important to know what types of texts work best for each type of person.


To get more dates, you need to use a more direct approach. Try something like “Hey, you look hot in that dress. Want to go out sometime?” Or if you want to be a bit more playful, try something like “You should probably know this, but I think you’re the hottest girl I’ve ever seen.” That will definitely get her attention and set the mood for you to start flirting with her.


If you’re looking for something more serious: If you want to get more dates, you’ll need to take things a bit more seriously.


The first thing you need to do when texting women is to get their attention. You can do this by sending her a direct message on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat or another social media platform. The best way to do this is to find a photo of her and add a short comment about how you like her looks, say something on what she’s doing, or tell her something about herself that you find interesting.


If sending a text message, you can say something about your the initial conversation you two had.


For example you two talked about that it may rain soon in your interaction. Later that day you can say: “Told you it isn’t going to rain, I can sell my forecast prediction to news outlets and be rich haha. Hope you had fun yoga class”


This will bring her back to your interaction, and she will remember the exciting emotions she experienced around you, having her messaging you back!


Connecting A Bit


Once she responds to your message, you can then start the conversation. The next thing you need to do is build a connection with her. This means making sure you give her a compliment every once in a while. Women love it when men compliment them on their looks/ something funny they said, so this is a great way to start a conversation with her. It also helps to ask her questions that show her that you’re interested in who she is as a person and not just her looks.


Setting Up A Date



How To Text Women And Get More Dates/ How To Get More Dates When Texting Women: When you’re trying to get more dates when texting women, you need to make sure you’re sending her the right types of texts at the right times. Here are some examples of what you should be texting women:


  • A text to ask her to go out with you: “Hey, I was thinking about going out for coffee tomorrow morning. You want to go with me?”
  • A text to ask her out on a date: “Hey, I was thinking about going out for a drink tonight. Want to come with me?”
  • A text to ask her out for the weekend: “Hey, I was thinking about going out for drinks and dinner tonight. Want to join me?”
  • A text to ask her if she wants to hang out with you this weekend: “Hey, I was thinking about hanging out this weekend. What do you think?”


# Of course you would send any of these after exchanging messages and not after she hadn’t replied to you for seven years haha


These are some basic ideas to get you going. If you want to learn more advanced ideas, get in touch with me here.

here are the 5 tips you need not to do when texting women.


When texting women, avoid texting her too much. It’s not going to get her to like you or be more interested in you. Texting too many times going to make you look needy and desperate. It’s better to wait until she replies and then keep it short. If she texts you first, don’t reply right away. Give it some time.

If she doesn’t text you back after a few days, do not text her again. If she texts you first, don’t text her back immediately. Wait until she has time to think about it (and you) and then text her.



You don’t need to try to be funny. women are much more sophisticated than you think. It’s not about trying to be funny, it’s about being yourself and not being afraid of being yourself. If you try to be funny, you’ll end up not being yourself, and people will not like you for it. Not saying you aren’t funny just don’t be a try hard.



You also don’t need to try to impress them with how many girls you’ve slept with or whatever else.


That’s just a waste of time, and not very polite either. However if you want to try to find out if they like you, the best way is to do it in a low-pressure situation, such as at a party or while spending time together. Then you can see if it happens naturally, and you don’t have to force anything.



If you’re not getting responses from women, don’t worry about it. There are a lot of reasons why this could happen. Maybe she’s not interested in you. Perhaps she’s just busy. Or she’s just not into texting. Maybe she’s just got a lot going on right now. Don’t get butt hurt if she doesn’t reply back to you. You’ll just make yourself crazy trying to figure out why she’s not replying back.



Avoid texting to turn into an interview questions. It’s boring and what most men do. Its okay to ask questions as long and you mix them with some fun texting and flirting. Therefore, if a woman is responding to your text she is interested in you or to get to know you better and if she does not respond then move on.

To Sum It Up


Anyways I don’t want to overwhelm you here with too many ideas. Everything in this blog about “How To Text Women And Get More Dates” is good enough to get you going.


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